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Monique and the Mango Rains
By Kris Holloway
Waveland Press
www.waveland.com
Awhile back, I received an e-mail recommending a book called Monique
and the Mango Rains. I liked the sound of the title and made a note
to look it up. Two days later, I found the book at my home, sent to me
by a client. Clearly, this was book I should read, and having finished
it, I'd say you should, too.
Monique and the Mango Rains is the story of the author's, Kris
Holloway, two years with a local midwife in a remote village in Mali. In
this tiny village, the conditions were very uncomfortable and unhygienic.
Medical waste was a pile in the corner of the room. Sterilized equipment, gloves,
clean sheets, comfortable beds? Not even close.
But despite that, I had hoped
there would be elementary truths about labor and birth that would remain respected.
I was surprised when the author described Monique giving a woman an injection
(needles!) of Pitocin for the last stage of labor. Was this practice adopted
because it seemed 'more advanced?' It also surprised me that when the baby was
born, he was massaged a little then wrapped in a towel and placed to the side.
He was not on the mother's belly as I would have expected. Before receiving her
baby, the mother went into the next room to clean up. I wondered if this was
indeed tradition or if this too was influenced by Western medical models.
Nonetheless, there were basic truths that Monique and Kris dealt with on a daily
basis. Malnutrition was a major problem so much of their focus was on good nutrition
and time for mothers to recuperate.
As limited in resources as their health care was, simple things could make a
dramatic difference. Monique continually encouraged the women to continue breastfeeding,
to not wean their babies suddenly or too early. She and Kris instructed parents
about a basic rehydration mix that could avert the fatal decline of a baby with
diarrhea.
Monique had been given nine months of training to become a midwife and, at the
age of 24, was the only health care provider in the whole village. Kris Holloway,
as a Peace Corps volunteer, was her assistant for two years. You can imagine
the range of experience they had treating mothers, babies, older women and men.
Kris knew how hard Monique worked and how invaluable was her commitment to the
village's health. And yet, Monique had no control over her own salary. It was
her father-in-law and her "lazy husband" (referred to as 'the guy'
by Monique) who received the money. They did not spend it wisely. Kris decided
to investigate that further. Although she was a foreigner, she did receive quiet
support from the village chief. Perhaps as a respected outsider, she was able
to present a change that an established traditional member could not. As it turns
out, no one but Monique should have received the income and it was formally corrected.
There were other issues that Kris dealt with diplomatically.She was able to discuss
the practice of genital mutilation with Monique. In her experience as a midwife,
Monique had seen the problems that it created for women, though as a young girl,
she had been excited when she was old enough for the ceremony. Yet these two
women as friends, from other sides of the planet, could productively discuss
and review this deep culture difference.
In a short two years, they helped many people and contributed a few significant
improvements to the health of the village. I felt, as Kris must have felt, surprised
when her two years were over. Monique and Kris made plans to keep in touch. There
was a most charming moment when they discussed how Monique could come to visit
Kris but I don't want to
give that away. You should read this book.
These were two remarkable young women
who, with their good hearts, fundamental skills and generous camaraderie, undoubtedly
made a difference in many people's lives.
Monique and the Mango Rains by Kris Holloway, Waveland Press.
www.waveland.com
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